An Exclusive Invitation for Queer Country Club Members

Because you’re part of this community, I wanted to extend something just to you.

For the next 48 hours, Queer Country Club members have access to an exclusive offer:
$1,000 off my 12-week private coaching container.

This is my deepest level of 1:1 work — where we regulate your nervous system, untangle attachment patterns, strengthen your sense of self, and shift the dating dynamics that keep repeating.

This container is typically $7,000.
For you, it’s $6,000 if secured within the next 48 hours.

This isn’t surface-level coaching.
This is where patterns actually change.

If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your worth in dating and start building a steady, self-trusting foundation — this is your moment.

Only a limited number of spots are available.

If it feels aligned, I’d love to work with you.

Claim My Spot!

What You Receive Inside the 12-Week Private Coaching Container

1:1 Weekly Private Coaching Sessions

  • 12 private, 60-minute sessions
  • Deep nervous system and attachment-based coaching
  • Real-time support around dating experiences as they unfold
  • Pattern interruption and rewire work
  • Practical strategy + emotional regulation integration


This is not surface-level conversation. This is applied, embodied work.

Ongoing Messaging Support Between Sessions

  • Direct access to me via Messenger/ voice + text support
  • In-the-moment guidance when dating triggers arise
  • Real-time recalibration instead of spiraling alone
  • Accountability and reinforcement of new patterns

You’re not waiting a week to process something that’s happening now.

Nervous System Regulation Training

  • Tools to regulate anxiety, urgency, and overthinking
  • Somatic grounding practices you can use during dating moments
  • Understanding your personal triggers and activation patterns
  • Building internal steadiness so worth feels stable

This is where dating stops hijacking your body.

Attachment Pattern Awareness + Rewiring

  • Identify anxious / avoidant / protective tendencies
  • Understand how your early conditioning shows up in dating
  • Shift from reactive to secure responses
  • Build secure attachment behaviors in real time

Not theory — applied change.

Worth + Identity Stabilization

  • Strengthen self-concept independent of dating outcomes
  • Rebuild confidence that isn’t dependent on validation
  • Clarify who you are and what you actually want
  • Make choices aligned with your future, not your past

This is where self-trust becomes consistent. 

Clear Boundaries + Communication Work

  • How to communicate needs without over-explaining
  • Stop minimizing yourself to preserve connection
  • Learn when to lean in and when to step back
  • Let consistency inform decisions instead of hope

Dating becomes clarity, not chaos.

Personalized Reflection + Tools

  • Custom exercises based on your patterns
  • Worksheets + prompts when helpful
  • Integration practices between sessions
  • Real-life application assignments

Everything is tailored to you.
 
 A Structured 12-Week Arc

  • Week 1–3: Stabilize nervous system + identify patterns
  • Week 4–8: Rewire worth + attachment responses
  • Week 9–12: Embody secure dating + self-trust

You don’t just gain insight.
You build capacity.

The Result

By the end of 12 weeks, you walk away with:

  • A regulated nervous system in dating
  • Secure attachment behaviors
  • Stronger self-worth
  • Clearer boundaries
  • Calmer communication
  • Confidence rooted in who you are
  • And the ability to date without abandoning yourself

This is where patterns actually change.

If you’re still reading this, something in you already knows.

You don’t need more insight.
You don’t need another podcast episode.
You don’t need to keep analyzing your patterns on your own.

You need support while you’re actually living it.

This is the work that shifts how you show up in dating — not just how you think about it.

If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your worth, stop overgiving, and start dating from steadiness instead of survival… this is your moment.

Not because you’re broken.
But because you’re done repeating what you already understand.

You don’t have to be 100% confident.
You just have to be willing.

If it feels aligned, take the step.

This is where patterns actually change.

I'm Ready!