You’re Not Lazy—You’re Looping

Jul 23, 2025By Jaime Coaches

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Let’s have an honest moment:
Self-sabotage isn’t always obvious.

It’s not just laying on the couch eating chips while ignoring your to-do list (though… that counts too).
Sometimes, it shows up dressed as productivity. As overthinking. As “just needing to feel more aligned before I take action.”
Cute. But no.

If you’ve ever said:

  • “I just need to get a little more organized first”
  • “Let me clean my whole house before I send that email”
  • “I’ll go after that goal… once I feel more ready”

…congrats. You’ve met the sneakier side of self-sabotage.

And before you start spiraling—this doesn’t make you broken or lazy. It makes you human.

Your brain is wired to keep you safe, not successful. And guess what feels unsafe to your nervous system?
Visibility. Change. Growth. Being fully seen.
So when you start getting close to something good, your brain’s like, “Nah, let’s distract her with a sudden need to organize the pantry.”

Self-Sabotage Is a Pattern—Not a Personality

Here’s the thing:
You’re not the problem.
The pattern is.
And the second you can name it, you can start shifting it.

So let’s try something right now:
👉 What’s one thing you say you want—but keep putting off, avoiding, or “accidentally” making harder than it needs to be?

Say it out loud. Write it down. Drop it in a note. Whatever you do—name it.

Because when you call out the pattern, you take its power away.

Ready to Break the Loop?

If you’re tired of circling the same mountain—sabotaging your momentum every time you get close to something good—I’ve got something for you.

It’s called Climb the Mountain, and it’s a 10-day mastermind experience built to help you break out of the loop, reconnect with your power, and finally move differently.

  • Short daily videos
  • Journal prompts that actually move the needle
  • Action steps that help you stop thinking and start climbing

We start August 4th—and if you’re feeling the nudge, don’t ignore it.

👉 Join Climb the Mountain here

You're not lazy. You're not lost.
You're just ready for a new pattern.

Let’s climb.