You’re Not Bad at Love — You’re Just Wired for Familiarity

For a long time, I thought I was bad at love.

I looked at the trail of almost-relationships, short relationships, relationships that started strong and slowly unraveled — and assumed the problem had to be me.

I was too anxious.
Too invested.
Too much.

What I didn’t understand yet was that I wasn’t broken — I was operating from old wiring.

I was showing up in love the way my nervous system had learned to survive it.
Choosing familiarity over alignment.
Confusing anxiety with attraction.
Holding on because something felt known, not because it felt right.

Not because anyone was “bad.”
Not because my exes were villains.
But because my subconscious was leading… and I didn’t know how to work with it yet.

Why the Same Patterns Keep Showing Up

Most people aren’t stuck in love because they’re doing something wrong.

They’re stuck because:

• They aren’t clear on what they actually want
• Their subconscious is running old programs
• Their nervous system associates intensity with connection
• They’ve learned to over-give, wait, or self-abandon to feel close

Your brain is wired for familiarity, not fulfillment.

It will reach for what feels known — even when it’s no longer aligned.
It will sacrifice peace for recognition.
It will cling to old dynamics because they feel “comfortable,” even if they hurt.

That’s not a character flaw.
That’s conditioning.

And once you understand that, everything shifts.

This Is Where “Manifestation” Gets Misunderstood

A lot of what we’re taught about manifesting love skips the most important part.

We’re told to:

• Think positive
• Let go
• Love ourselves more
• Stop wanting it

But none of that explains why we keep choosing the same dynamics even when we know better.

Manifestation isn’t magic.
It’s not spells or pretending.

It’s about understanding:

• How your subconscious mind filters potential partners
• How your nervous system responds to safety vs. activation
• How old beliefs and attachment patterns influence attraction
• How to consciously interrupt patterns instead of repeating them

That’s the work I do.
And it’s why I created this container.

What Manifest Your Soulmate Is Really About

Manifest Your Soulmate is a 10-day, brain-based mastermind designed to help you understand why love has felt hard — and how to change it at the level where real change actually happens.

This isn’t woo.
There are no spells.
No bypassing.
No pretending you’re healed.

We work with:

• Neuroscience
• Nervous system regulation
• Subconscious patterning
• Conscious pattern interruption
• Attachment responses
• The Reticular Activating System (what your brain filters in and out)

In simple terms:
We stop trying to manifest harder and start training your brain to recognize and choose differently.

What Shifts Over These 10 Days

Before this work, love often feels:

• Anxious
• Confusing
• Heavy
• Performative
• Like something you have to earn or manage

After this work, love starts to feel:

• Calm
• Clear
• Grounded
• Self-led
• Chosen, not chased

And even if you don’t meet someone right away, success looks like:

• Clear standards
• Emotional neutrality toward old patterns
• Confidence in your dating decisions
• Deep self-trust
• Peace

Often, this work doesn’t just change who chooses you —
It changes who you choose.

How the Mastermind Works 

Daily (Monday–Friday):

• A short video teaching
• A simple but powerful assignment
• Designed to take about 30 minutes a day
• Weekends are built in for catching up or integration

Live Support:

• Weekly live coaching call on Zoom (45 minutes)
• Office hours for additional support

Community:

• Private group
• Optional sharing
• Gentle accountability
• A space that feels safe, grounded, and non-judgmental

Who This Is For

This is for you if:

• You’re tired of repeating the same relationship patterns
• You want clarity instead of chaos
• You’re done confusing chemistry with compatibility
• You want love to feel calmer and safer
• You’re ready to understand your subconscious instead of fighting it

This is not for you if:

• You’re looking for manifestation hacks or magic fixes
• You want to bypass your inner work
• You want intensity instead of emotional safety

An Invitation

If you’ve been asking yourself, “Why does this keep happening?”
If love has felt heavier than it should…
If you’re ready for a different experience — one rooted in clarity, calm, and self-trust —

I’m opening a 10-day space to explore this together.

Manifest Your Soulmate
February 16–27
Investment: $59
Payment plans available
Enrollment closes February 14

You can learn more and join HERE!

It’s all unfolding perfectly.