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When you hear the words "manifestation" or "law of attraction," do you find yourself rolling your eyes just a little? If so, you're not alone. A lot of people dismiss these concepts as "woo-woo" or wishful thinking. But what if I told you there’s actual science behind why these practices work? Yep, you read that right—it’s not just about writing in a journal and hoping for the best. Let’s dig in.<figure id="figure-62s6ywfgwym5wtd66q"><img id="62s6ywfgwym5wtd66q" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1312018611/photo/teenage-girl-with-purple-hair-rolling-her-eyes.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tuifWu_vD1I904pA0IZI9tv9-GD9pXuli8kslysdse0=" alt="Teenage girl with purple hair rolling her eyes" title="Teenage girl with purple hair rolling her eyes" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1312018611/photo/teenage-girl-with-purple-hair-rolling-her-eyes.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tuifWu_vD1I904pA0IZI9tv9-GD9pXuli8kslysdse0=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>How Manifestation Works in Your Brain At the core of manifestation lies the principle of focus. Whatever you direct your attention to grows in your awareness. This isn’t magic; it’s your brain’s Reticular Activating System (RAS) at work. The RAS is a bundle of neurons in your brainstem that acts like a filter for all the information around you. Think about it: your brain is bombarded with stimuli every second of every day. Without this filter, you'd be completely overwhelmed.Here’s the cool part: your RAS prioritizes what you tell it is important. When you set clear intentions and visualize your goals, you’re essentially programming your RAS to focus on opportunities, people, and resources that align with what you want. It’s like buying a red car and suddenly seeing red cars everywhere. Those red cars were always there, but now your brain has been primed to notice them.<figure id="figure-ogxzkqoeinm5wtf4bq" class=""><img id="ogxzkqoeinm5wtf4bq" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/171211495/photo/classic-convertible.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=0IU-d-bL9X2Q-RTRTz7ba0i_n1ABG-XPU4TbiNGr_Mo=" alt="Classic Convertible" title="Classic Convertible" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/171211495/photo/classic-convertible.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=0IU-d-bL9X2Q-RTRTz7ba0i_n1ABG-XPU4TbiNGr_Mo=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>The Neuroscience of Visualization Visualization isn’t just daydreaming; it’s a tool that athletes, CEOs, and high achievers use regularly. When you vividly imagine achieving a goal, your brain fires the same neural pathways as it would if you were actually doing the thing. This process is called neuroplasticity—the brain’s ability to rewire itself.By consistently visualizing your desired outcomes, you’re literally reshaping your brain to believe these outcomes are possible. Over time, this belief translates into actions that move you closer to your goals. It’s not that you’re magically attracting what you want; it’s that you’re training your brain to work in harmony with your desires.<figure id="figure-g8sqdh4uegm5wtgtl2"><img id="g8sqdh4uegm5wtgtl2" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1864548083/photo/photo-of-beautiful-amazed-girl-wearing-casual-black-t-shirt-isolated-black-background-stock.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tWBls6BjfhEMyLmpdcDumOVZBqbIjY2ogd01KKFuQMk=" alt="Photo of beautiful amazed girl wearing casual black t-shirt isolated black background stock photo" title="Photo of beautiful amazed girl wearing casual black t-shirt isolated black background stock photo" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1864548083/photo/photo-of-beautiful-amazed-girl-wearing-casual-black-t-shirt-isolated-black-background-stock.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tWBls6BjfhEMyLmpdcDumOVZBqbIjY2ogd01KKFuQMk=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Why Gratitude Amplifies Manifestation Gratitude might seem like a warm, fuzzy idea, but it’s a game-changer when it comes to manifestation. When you practice gratitude, your brain releases feel-good chemicals like dopamine and serotonin. These chemicals create a sense of well-being and motivate you to keep going.Gratitude also shifts your focus from what you lack to what you already have. This isn’t just a mental shift; it’s an energetic one. When you feel abundant, you’re more likely to take inspired action, which creates momentum toward your goals.Inspired Action: The Missing Link Manifestation isn’t about sitting back and waiting for the universe to drop a soulmate, a dream job, or financial freedom in your lap. It’s about tuning into your intuition and taking action when opportunities arise. This is what I call inspired action.When you combine clarity, visualization, gratitude, and action, you’re aligning your brain, emotions, and behaviors with your goals. This creates a ripple effect, drawing you closer to the life you want.<figure id="figure-uww73rf5hlm5wtjq6i"><img id="uww73rf5hlm5wtjq6i" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/14WAUDyOBkmWDQl0PdifkUw0ixbcwWz8OKWOb7F32TYQpKmVaugFTtcek1GY1gWN.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 45%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="45%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/14WAUDyOBkmWDQl0PdifkUw0ixbcwWz8OKWOb7F32TYQpKmVaugFTtcek1GY1gWN.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 45%;"></figure>Ready to Manifest Your Soulmate? If finding love is at the top of your list this year, I’ve got something special for you. Join us for the Valentine’s Edition of the <a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/mastermind" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/mastermind">10-Day Manifest Your Soulmate Mastermind</a> starting February 3rd. This group coaching experience is designed to help you get crystal clear on what you want in a partner, break through limiting beliefs, and create the space to attract a deep, fulfilling connection.<figure id="figure-qwtll7vvy5m5wtljr3"><iframe id="qwtll7vvy5m5wtljr3" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/xAh4Pp7R7Eo" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/xAh4Pp7R7Eo?si=11NHfwTFihE1EliG" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/xAh4Pp7R7Eo" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure>Together, we’ll cover everything from setting intentions and practicing visualization to disrupting old patterns and trusting the universe. It’s not just about finding love—it’s about becoming the best version of yourself so you can attract the kind of relationship you truly deserve.Spaces are limited, so don’t wait. <a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/mastermind" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/mastermind">Click here</a> to save your spot and start your journey toward manifesting the love of your life.Because let’s be real: love isn’t about luck; it’s about alignment.<a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/mastermind" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/mastermind" data-mce-selected="inline-boundary">JOIN US IN THE MANIFEST YOUR SOULMATE MASTERMIND HERE!</a>

Manifestation and the Law of Attraction: The Science Behind the "Woo-Woo"

Have you ever noticed how life has this way of throwing irony at you when you least expect it? This morning, during a TikTok Live where we were diving into Mel Robbins’ powerful new book, Let Them, I experienced just that. Right as we were reading a section about how making changes can be uncomfortable, TikTok decided to restrict the live. The message? Something about the content potentially making some people uncomfortable. Talk about timing!<figure id="figure-wpm20fmk1cm5le07k8"><iframe id="wpm20fmk1cm5le07k8" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/9Hg1JA2E9L0" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/9Hg1JA2E9L0" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/9Hg1JA2E9L0" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure>Here’s the thing: personal growth is uncomfortable. It’s messy, uncertain, and downright hard at times. But it’s also where the magic happens. When we push through that initial resistance, that "ugh, this feels weird" stage, we open ourselves up to incredible transformation.Think about it. Change challenges us to step outside our comfort zones, to let go of what’s familiar, and to trust in something new. Whether it’s starting a new habit, ending a toxic relationship, or pursuing a dream that scares the heck out of you—there’s always that moment of discomfort. It’s like a bridge we have to cross, and for a while, it might feel shaky. But once you get to the other side? Wow. The view is worth it.That’s why Mel Robbins’ book resonates so much. Let Them invites us to embrace that discomfort and see it for what it truly is: growth in action. If you’re not feeling at least a little uncomfortable, are you really pushing yourself? Are you really growing?One of the tools Mel Robbins is famous for—and one that ties perfectly into this—is her 5 Second Rule. The concept is simple but incredibly effective: when you feel the urge to act on something or make a change, count down from five—5, 4, 3, 2, 1—and then take action. This rule bypasses hesitation and the mental excuses our brains love to throw at us. It’s a way to interrupt your thoughts and propel yourself forward, even when you’re feeling uncomfortable. Mel used this rule herself to pull out of a difficult phase in her life. Instead of hitting snooze or procrastinating, she’d count down and launch herself into action. It’s a game-changer for those moments when discomfort threatens to hold you back.I know firsthand how tempting it is to retreat when things get tough. Our minds love the familiar because it feels safe. But safe isn’t where breakthroughs happen. The next time you feel that knot in your stomach or hear that inner voice saying, “Maybe I should just stop,” I want you to pause. Take a deep breath. And remind yourself that this feeling is temporary. You’re in the middle of your bridge, and if you just keep walking, you’ll make it to the other side.So, let’s make a pact: when things get uncomfortable, we push through. When TikTok restricts a Live because it’s too real for some, we laugh, regroup, and keep going. Because growth isn’t about staying where we are. It’s about taking that next step—even when it’s hard.<figure id="figure-4v7l0nrg2km5le2uxi"><img id="4v7l0nrg2km5le2uxi" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/31GSYxnt0NKAfKqyus8GMuCsxhjVVFvjo4Rlzkf4WjNCda9p92ZznNZoPi4ycog0.png" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 60%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="60%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/31GSYxnt0NKAfKqyus8GMuCsxhjVVFvjo4Rlzkf4WjNCda9p92ZznNZoPi4ycog0.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 60%;"></figure>If you’re ready to embrace the journey of personal growth and want to join an amazing community doing the same, come hang out with me on TikTok every weekday morning at 9 AM EST. <a data-mce-href="https://amzn.to/42lR1Af" href="https://amzn.to/42lR1Af">Grab your copy of the book here!</a>Together, we’re reading <a data-mce-href="https://www.melrobbins.com/letthemtheory" href="https://www.melrobbins.com/letthemtheory" data-mce-selected="inline-boundary">Let Them by Mel Robbins</a>, and I promise—it’s worth it. See you there!<a data-mce-href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimemessina" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jaimemessina">FOLLOW ME ON TIKTOK HERE!&nbsp;</a>

When Discomfort Strikes: Why Change Is Worth the Challenge

When we talk about self-healing, it’s easy to think it’s just about the mind. After all, that’s where our thoughts, beliefs, and inner chatter live. But here’s the truth: real, lasting healing isn’t just about the mind. It’s about your whole self—mind, body, and soul.Each part of you plays a vital role, and when you nurture all three, you create a life that feels balanced, vibrant, and aligned. Let’s dive into why each piece is important and one small, impactful thing you can do for each.<figure id="figure-sawfhecrlm56werq7"><img id="sawfhecrlm56werq7" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1948997446/photo/thinking-about-questions-and-getting-ideas-human-head-silhouette-and-gears.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=kijsXxsGXIQvgg39gQbsghATudX5fthooGWRf-lFMZs=" alt="Thinking about questions and getting ideas. Human head silhouette and gears." title="Thinking about questions and getting ideas. Human head silhouette and gears." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1948997446/photo/thinking-about-questions-and-getting-ideas-human-head-silhouette-and-gears.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=kijsXxsGXIQvgg39gQbsghATudX5fthooGWRf-lFMZs=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Healing Your Mind Your mind is like the control center of your life. The thoughts you think, the stories you tell yourself—they shape your experience. When you’re stuck in negative patterns or weighed down by old beliefs, it’s hard to feel like you’re moving forward. Healing your mind is about becoming aware of those patterns and choosing better ones.Try This: Start a gratitude practice. Every night, write down three things you’re grateful for. It can be as big as a meaningful conversation or as small as a great cup of coffee. Gratitude shifts your focus to the good and trains your brain to look for more of it.<figure id="figure-34egx6a7e5m56wfzlp"><img id="34egx6a7e5m56wfzlp" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1157343333/photo/ooo-i-can-definitely-feel-that.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=2MoLCbirXpIdIGqeX5-5euYWPuOqkpFalnl1jHzWxBM=" alt="Ooo, I can definitely feel that" title="Ooo, I can definitely feel that" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1157343333/photo/ooo-i-can-definitely-feel-that.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=2MoLCbirXpIdIGqeX5-5euYWPuOqkpFalnl1jHzWxBM=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: undefined undefined;"></figure>Healing Your Body Your body is your home, and it holds onto so much—stress, trauma, joy, and everything in between. When we don’t take care of it, we often feel it in the form of fatigue, pain, or even illness. Healing your body is about tuning in and giving it the love it deserves.Try This: Add 10 minutes of mindful movement to your day. This could be stretching, yoga, walking, or even dancing around your kitchen. Pay attention to how your body feels and what it needs—it’s always talking to you.<figure id="figure-9k6lo8tn7mm56wipi3"><img id="9k6lo8tn7mm56wipi3" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1461537129/photo/close-up-woman-hand-writing-on-notebook.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=vnJ4GjOoVLUx4sUUff8AyzVKlVLOQaPcnAU1UGseY2U=" alt="Close up woman hand writing on notebook ." title="Close up woman hand writing on notebook ." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1461537129/photo/close-up-woman-hand-writing-on-notebook.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=vnJ4GjOoVLUx4sUUff8AyzVKlVLOQaPcnAU1UGseY2U=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Healing Your Soul Your soul is the heart of who you are. It’s your spark, your purpose, your connection to something bigger than yourself. When your soul is neglected, life can feel heavy, directionless, or uninspired. Healing your soul is about reigniting that spark and reconnecting with what makes you you.Try This: Spend 10 minutes a day doing something that nourishes your soul. Meditate, pray, journal, or just sit quietly and dream about what you truly want in life. This small act can bring you closer to your true self.<figure id="figure-2m5nte4ukim56wjml8"><iframe id="2m5nte4ukim56wjml8" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lKrqrFnoEEc" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/lKrqrFnoEEc?si=oCbwtSRfcgS_YxsI" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lKrqrFnoEEc" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure> Ready to Take Your Healing Deeper in 2025? If you’re feeling ready to go all in on your healing journey, I’ve got something special for you. <a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/riseandreclaim" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/riseandreclaim">Rise &amp; Reclaim: Your Path to Wholeness</a> starts on January 6th, 2025, and it’s a 12-week group coaching program that’s all about healing your mind, body, and soul—while focusing on regulating your nervous system.We’ll work together to break free from limiting beliefs, release emotional baggage, and create a life that feels whole and fulfilling. The best part? You’ll be surrounded by a supportive community that’s walking the same path.This is your chance to start the year feeling aligned, empowered, and ready to rise.<a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/riseandreclaim" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/riseandreclaim">Click here</a> to grab your spot and join us. Let’s make 2025 the year you reclaim your wholeness. You’re worth it.

The Holistic Journey: Healing Your Mind, Body, and Soul

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In a world that can sometimes feel chaotic, especially as we navigate our own unique journeys later in life, finding moments of peace and clarity is more important than ever. Whether you're redefining who you are, healing old wounds, or simply trying to get through a busy day, practices like grounding, breathwork, and meditation can be powerful tools to bring you back to center.Let's explore these practices together and discover how they can support your mind, body, and spirit.&nbsp; Grounding: Anchoring Yourself in the Present Grounding is all about connecting with the here and now. It’s a simple yet powerful way to reduce anxiety, calm your mind, and feel more present in your daily life. For many of us in Club LILLES, staying grounded can help us navigate moments of self-doubt, loneliness, or overwhelm.Simple Grounding Techniques to Try:<ul><li>Barefoot Walking: Step outside and feel the earth beneath your feet. Whether it's grass, sand, or soil, this direct connection with nature can instantly calm your nervous system.</li><li>The 5-4-3-2-1 Method: Notice 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste. This exercise brings you right into the moment.</li><li>Hold a Grounding Object: A smooth stone, a piece of jewelry, or any small object you can hold can serve as an anchor when you're feeling unsteady.</li></ul>Remember: Grounding helps remind you that you are here, you are safe, and you are enough.<figure id="figure-7ryopjwfifim4vpbkcg"><img id="7ryopjwfifim4vpbkcg" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1496615471/photo/mixed-race-woman-relax-and-breathing-fresh-air-outdoor-at-sunset.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=ilshhqDxmq7zH9oCSviv4Y--i-XGOqftSPguAcWrj04=" alt="Mixed race woman relax and breathing fresh air outdoor at sunset" title="Mixed race woman relax and breathing fresh air outdoor at sunset" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1496615471/photo/mixed-race-woman-relax-and-breathing-fresh-air-outdoor-at-sunset.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=ilshhqDxmq7zH9oCSviv4Y--i-XGOqftSPguAcWrj04=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Breathwork: The Power of Your Breath Your breath is one of the most accessible tools you have for managing stress, anxiety, and even physical tension. The best part? It’s always with you.Breathwork is the practice of consciously changing your breathing pattern to influence your mental and emotional state. It's a way to hit the "reset" button whenever you feel overwhelmed or out of sync.A Quick Breathwork Exercise:<ul><li>Box Breathing: Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts, exhale for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts. Repeat this cycle 4-5 times.</li><li>Alternate Nostril Breathing: Gently close one nostril with your thumb, inhale through the open nostril, then switch and exhale through the other nostril. This can help balance your mind and ease anxiety.</li></ul>A Thought: Every breath you take is a reminder that you’re alive, resilient, and capable of finding calm, no matter what life throws your way.<figure id="figure-wk8zj55z8fm4vpdyob"><img id="wk8zj55z8fm4vpdyob" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2177243588/photo/calm-meditation-and-woman-in-bedroom-peace-and-relax-on-bed-spiritual-and-enlightenment-in.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=CNwf1gVJGFbKbiC3HgZOp0WrzcPlT-nu5zsRArg2TO8=" alt="Calm, meditation and woman in bedroom, peace and relax on bed, spiritual and enlightenment in house. Mindset, zen and emotional health with chakra, wellness and person in morning, breathing and home" title="Calm, meditation and woman in bedroom, peace and relax on bed, spiritual and enlightenment in house. Mindset, zen and emotional health with chakra, wellness and person in morning, breathing and home" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/2177243588/photo/calm-meditation-and-woman-in-bedroom-peace-and-relax-on-bed-spiritual-and-enlightenment-in.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=CNwf1gVJGFbKbiC3HgZOp0WrzcPlT-nu5zsRArg2TO8=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure> Meditation: Finding Stillness in the Chaos Meditation might sound intimidating, but at its core, it's just the practice of being still and noticing what's happening within you. For those of us in Club LILLES, meditation can be a beautiful way to cultivate self-awareness, compassion, and inner peace.Types of Meditation to Explore:<ul><li>Guided Meditations: Listen to a recorded meditation to help you focus. There are plenty available online — many designed specifically for LGBTQ+ communities.</li><li>Loving-Kindness Meditation: Silently repeat phrases like, “May I be happy. May I be safe. May I be loved,” and extend these wishes to others in your life.</li><li>Body Scan: Close your eyes and slowly scan your body from head to toe, noticing any areas of tension and gently releasing them.</li></ul>It’s Not About Perfection: Your mind will wander — that’s okay! Meditation is about gently bringing yourself back to the present, again and again.&nbsp; Why These Practices Matter In a fast-paced world, it’s easy to get lost in the chaos. Grounding, breathwork, and meditation are tools that can help you pause, reset, and reconnect with yourself. They don’t require hours of commitment or special skills — just a willingness to show up for yourself, even for a few minutes.When to Use These Tools:<ul><li>Feeling anxious? Try grounding.</li><li>Feeling overwhelmed? Take a few minutes for breathwork.</li><li>Feeling disconnected? Spend some time in meditation.</li></ul>These simple practices remind you that peace and clarity are always within reach. No matter what’s happening around you, you have the power to return to a place of calm and balance.You Deserve Moments of Peace You are worthy of calm, clarity, and self-care. Start with just a few minutes a day, and notice how these small moments of stillness can create big changes in your mindset and well-being.You’ve got this.<h2>Want to take these practices to the next level? Join us in our upcoming 12-Week Group Coaching program! Learn more by clicking <a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/riseandreclaim" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/riseandreclaim">HERE!</a></h2><figure id="figure-5oadt4xokxm4vplig0"><iframe id="5oadt4xokxm4vplig0" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lKrqrFnoEEc" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowFullScreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/lKrqrFnoEEc?si=vXca4Hv5ga3WXbGC" data-corners="default" data-fullWidth="false"></iframe></figure>

Find Your Calm: The Benefits of Grounding, Breathwork, and Meditation

I’m pumped to share one of my FAVORITE client wins with you today! You might be wondering if I should give you a sneak peek of the “after” or wait for the big reveal when the documentary drops. Trust me — it’s going to be worth the wait!<figure id="figure-ifk4rk4db5m4ss54zf"><img id="ifk4rk4db5m4ss54zf" src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/5rBM3agT0tYaqZhMrGBWf7LoEDDDkNUd3Ly23Qjg6Tptvd7jOv2a2bawrVQsz0X0.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 35%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="35%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/covers/5rBM3agT0tYaqZhMrGBWf7LoEDDDkNUd3Ly23Qjg6Tptvd7jOv2a2bawrVQsz0X0.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 35%;"></figure>Let me introduce you to Myra. When Myra came to me 8 months ago, she was ready to embrace her authentic self and build the confidence to show up fully — no matter what anyone else thought. She knew something had to change, and she was determined to let her true self shine through.Her journey was about more than just mindset. It was about her entire expression — her personal style, even her hair. Myra’s goal was simple yet powerful: to make her outside reflect who she was on the inside. And I was so honored to walk alongside her as her coach.<figure id="figure-e2hlqzldsom4ss6ggt"><img id="e2hlqzldsom4ss6ggt" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/cd3yBLdh58lZBKb3GCpcvEbI9fvlLHxN01iiztbqfbaIi1UmXEBAXhAZYtlf5SfF.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 10%;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="50%" data-positiony="10%" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/cd3yBLdh58lZBKb3GCpcvEbI9fvlLHxN01iiztbqfbaIi1UmXEBAXhAZYtlf5SfF.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: 50% 10%;"></figure>The Heavy Weight of Hiding Myra’s story really hit home for me. I remember those years of dressing and styling myself in ways that didn’t feel true, all to fit in or make others comfortable. Maybe you’ve felt that too — that pressure to hide parts of yourself, that urge to blend in even if it means sacrificing pieces of who you are.But here’s the thing: When you’re constantly masking who you are, you start to feel like a stranger in your own life. That disconnect doesn’t just linger — it seeps into every part of your being. Eventually, the mask you’re wearing becomes too heavy to bear.The Magic of Stepping Into Truth But Myra didn’t shy away from the work. She dug deep, explored who she truly was, and began aligning her outward expression with her inner truth. And now? Myra feels more like herself than ever before. The confidence, the light, the joy — it’s pure magic.This transformation isn’t just about hair or clothes; it’s about the freedom to be unapologetically YOU. Helping people step into their truth, own their confidence, and shed those suffocating masks is why I love what I do.You Don’t Have to Do This Alone If Myra’s story speaks to you, know that you don’t have to do this alone. One-on-one coaching and group coaching are amazing ways to step into your authenticity and build a life that feels like you. Whether you thrive with personalized support or love the power of community, I’ve got options to help you on your journey!I currently have an amazing deal on one on one coaching options AND we have a new group coaching program starting on January 6th! Check out the video below!<figure id="figure-6z8v0nq3zbm4ssgi66"><iframe id="6z8v0nq3zbm4ssgi66" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lKrqrFnoEEc" class="w-full bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" allowfullscreen="" data-url="https://youtu.be/lKrqrFnoEEc?si=tRvSvAaHLAICZ69-" data-corners="default" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lKrqrFnoEEc" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></iframe></figure>Ready to take that first step toward your own transformation? <a data-mce-href="https://jaimecoaches.com/riseandreclaim" href="https://jaimecoaches.com/riseandreclaim" data-mce-selected="inline-boundary">Learn More Here!</a>You deserve to feel like YOU — fully, authentically, and proudly. And I can’t wait to support you on that journey.Stay tuned for Myra’s big reveal. Trust me, it’s going to be AWESOME!

Stepping Into Authenticity: Myra’s Transformation Journey

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Hugs. They’re one of the simplest forms of human connection, yet they hold the power to transform our mental, emotional, and physical well-being. You may have heard the saying that we need 12 hugs a day to thrive, but have you ever wondered why that number exists and what it could do for you?If you’re like many people, you might be getting far fewer hugs than that on a regular basis. But here’s the good news: even increasing the amount of physical connection you get by just a little can make a big difference. Let’s explore the science behind hugging, why 12 hugs matter, and how you can start incorporating more hugs into your daily life.<figure id="figure-mcwapehq4tm4ollo0j"><img id="mcwapehq4tm4ollo0j" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1854558400/photo/love-to-pet.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tB2_lMmypVrv8oIuKM1oBQBbQASBajNxNBPXa95Ibb4=" alt="Love to pet." title="Love to pet." class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1854558400/photo/love-to-pet.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=tB2_lMmypVrv8oIuKM1oBQBbQASBajNxNBPXa95Ibb4=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>The Science Behind Hugging Hugging is more than just a nice gesture. It triggers a cascade of biological reactions that benefit your body and mind. When you hug someone, your brain releases oxytocin, often referred to as the "love hormone" or "bonding hormone." Oxytocin fosters feelings of trust, connection, and comfort.But oxytocin isn’t the only star of the show. Hugging also increases the levels of dopamine (the "feel-good" hormone) and serotonin (the "mood stabilizer"). These neurochemicals work together to improve your mood, reduce anxiety, and promote a sense of well-being.Additionally, hugging helps lower cortisol, the stress hormone. It’s a natural way to help your body relax and combat the effects of stress.<figure id="figure-rs0mrnz8hm4olp566"><img id="rs0mrnz8hm4olp566" src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1795133707/photo/pet-owner-stroking-his-old-cat-and-dog-together.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=9NdmupEN6B9uLuRsDPmB9y6Ddjt1fzpVN04sX7XpiLk=" alt="Pet owner stroking his old cat and dog together" title="Pet owner stroking his old cat and dog together" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://media.gettyimages.com/id/1795133707/photo/pet-owner-stroking-his-old-cat-and-dog-together.jpg?b=1&amp;s=2048x2048&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=9NdmupEN6B9uLuRsDPmB9y6Ddjt1fzpVN04sX7XpiLk=" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>Why 12 Hugs a Day? The idea of needing 12 hugs a day comes from family therapist Virginia Satir, who believed:<ul><li>4 hugs a day for survival.</li><li>8 hugs a day for maintenance.</li><li>12 hugs a day for growth.</li></ul>Why 12? While the number isn’t a hard scientific rule, it reflects the need for frequent, consistent physical connection to thrive emotionally and physically. Just like you need regular exercise to keep your body healthy, you need regular doses of physical affection to keep your emotional health strong.In our busy, often digital world, physical touch can become rare. But the more hugs you give and receive, the more your brain and body benefit.The Benefits of 12 Hugs a Day Here’s what happens when you prioritize physical connection:1. Reduced Stress and Anxiety: Hugs help lower cortisol levels and promote relaxation. Even just a 20-second hug can make a difference!2. Improved Mood: The dopamine and serotonin released during hugging help boost your mood and alleviate feelings of sadness or loneliness. 3. Stronger Immune System: Lower stress means a stronger immune system. Studies have shown that people who receive more hugs get sick less often.4. Lower Blood Pressure: Physical touch activates pressure receptors on your skin, signaling the brain to lower your heart rate and blood pressure. 5. Deeper Relationships: Hugs build trust and connection with loved ones, fostering stronger, healthier relationships. 6. Pain Relief: The endorphins released during hugs can act as a natural painkiller. 7. Better Sleep:&nbsp;Hugging helps you relax, making it easier to fall asleep and stay asleep. &nbsp;<figure id="figure-gi009tsylm4olxh7e"><img id="gi009tsylm4olxh7e" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2cGgCEq4H9RlSa6QJe74dYzqwrvZghMNQfjD9zHXhg7sROf5u5pVB1fqZX3PN5Iq.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-2xl md:rounded-3xl lg:rounded-4xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/2cGgCEq4H9RlSa6QJe74dYzqwrvZghMNQfjD9zHXhg7sROf5u5pVB1fqZX3PN5Iq.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>How to Get More Hugs Every Day Ready to bring more hugs into your life? Here are some practical tips:<ul><li>Hug Your Loved Ones: Start and end the day with a hug. Greet your partner, kids, or friends with a warm embrace.</li><li>Hug Your Pets: If you have a dog, cat, or another furry friend, giving them a cuddle can provide similar benefits.</li><li>Ask for Hugs: It’s okay to ask! Let people know you’re focusing on connection and would love a hug.</li><li>Join Supportive Communities: Attend community events, group gatherings, or clubs where physical connection and affection are part of the culture.</li><li>Practice Self-Hugs: When you need comfort and no one’s around, wrap your arms around yourself. Self-hugging can still trigger oxytocin release.</li><li>Give Virtual or Verbal Hugs: If in-person hugs aren’t possible, express affection through kind words, messages, or virtual connections.</li></ul>Final Thoughts In a world where stress, disconnection, and loneliness are all too common, hugging is a simple yet powerful remedy. It doesn’t cost anything, it doesn’t take much time, and its benefits are profound.You don’t have to hit 12 hugs immediately. Start by adding just one or two more hugs to your day and notice how it makes you feel. Connection, comfort, and healing are only a hug away.So, who are you going to hug today?Let’s build a world where we all thrive through connection. Share this post and spread the love — one hug at a time.&nbsp; &nbsp;<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(18px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-weight: inherit; font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); background-color: rgba(249,250,251,var(--tw-bg-opacity));" data-mce-style="font-family: inherit; font-size: calc(18px * var(--body-fontSize, 1)); font-weight: inherit; font-style: var(--body-fontStyle, normal); background-color: rgba(249,250,251,var(--tw-bg-opacity));">&nbsp;

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